The 14th Annual Wentz’s Community Auction last Saturday featured a very diverse collection of objects. Some of the objects seemed to me more like useless trash than auction-worthy. Yet more times than I can count, these worthless items went for much higher than I expected. There were other objects that I had zero interest in, but I could see how others would view them as useful. Then there were the nice items which were not for me. Be it due to not having space for it or not seeing how I would realistically use it. Let’s admit–there is only so much furniture, tools, and wall art that a person needs. Then there were the lucky bargains because of a general lack of interest. Such as the large roll of leather that I was able to grab for $2. But there were also the items that had several bidders seeking to outbid each other. I am sure I was not the only one who found it very entertaining watching how high some people went on certain items. The auction was exciting because we had a good mix of people with different needs, wants, and values.
The things that we value change over time as we learn and grow as people. Our personal growth and sense of identity are also influenced by the people we spend time with. Thus, as we spend more time walking with Jesus, our values should shift to become more like Jesus. The values of Jesus are best summed up in the Greatest Commandment to love God and love other people. Thus, as time goes on, we should grow in our love for God and our love and care for others. Different people will love God and other people in different ways. This is where our individual interests, strengths, and weaknesses come into play. We do not all have to do the same exact thing and should not be doing the same thing. The best thing you can do is to focus on a few things that you enjoy and are passionate about. The worst thing you can do is to attempt to do everything or try to force yourself into a role that does not fit who you are. Remember that growth and love take time, and everybody has limits. So, focus on what you can do and refuse to feel bad about the rest.